Advice needed for new pump/ring user

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Is it not valuable to have a woman's persepctive?

Does she not have the right to seek support in one of the very few places that actually know their stuff?

You can't leave a woman like that alone, she's trying to help her man, all respect to her.

I totally agree but that is the expressed view of the site administrator (Paul) and is very strongly supported by his moderator (Larry). It's Paul's site and he has in the past reaffirmed that view so it's a moot point (been there already).

[Larry10625]

Is it not valuable to have a woman's persepctive?

Does she not have the right to seek support in one of the very few places that actually know their stuff?

You can't leave a woman like that alone, she's trying to help her man, all respect to her.

I totally agree but that is the expressed view of the site administrator (Paul) and is very strongly supported by his moderator (Larry). It's Paul's site and he has in the past reaffirmed that view so it's a moot point (been there already).

There are other sites for couples or co-ed... this is not one of them.

Larry

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There are other sites for couples or co-ed... this is not one of them.

Larry

Perhaps it would be helpful if you posted some links to some of those good co-ed ED sites.

[Larry10625]

There are other sites for couples or co-ed... this is not one of them.

Larry

Perhaps it would be helpful if you posted some links to some of those good co-ed ED sites.

There is a Face Book site. I don't have the address because I choose to stay here where the ladies are not welcomed.

Larry

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There is a Face Book site. I don't have the address because I choose to stay here where the ladies are not welcomed.
Larry

About what I figured.
I've seen no good ED sites that include women. I've seen some cancer sites that address the ED issues poorly that allow women. I've seen some questionable "penis enhancement sites" that allow women and may touch on ED, poorly. Nope, no good ED sites that allow women. This is about the only true ED site I know of and it's constantly verging on becoming an implant only site (I could vent but I'd only dilute my point, assuming there is one) but as has been made very clear, this site isn't co-ed. And NO, I'm not going to go off and start my own site. Yeah, I know how but I don't have the drive (no T shots).

But there is a need for a place for a woman to go to seek help for her man when her man is either internet illiterate, too shy or embarrassed, in denial or too depressed to seek out help and join a (this) site. Perhaps if the girls were allowed to hang around long enough to learn something and then lead their man to get involved, it would reduce a lot of suffering, depression, grief with both spouses and even conflict between them. The woman who started this thread was crying out for help. Turning her away without showing her another good path seems cruel and heartless.

[Larry10625]

There is a Face Book site. I don't have the address because I choose to stay here where the ladies are not welcomed.
Larry

About what I figured.
I've seen no good ED sites that include women. I've seen some cancer sites that address the ED issues poorly that allow women. I've seen some questionable "penis enhancement sites" that allow women and may touch on ED, poorly. Nope, no good ED sites that allow women. This is about the only true ED site I know of and it's constantly verging on becoming an implant only site (I could vent but I'd only dilute my point, assuming there is one) but as has been made very clear, this site isn't co-ed. And NO, I'm not going to go off and start my own site. Yeah, I know how but I don't have the drive (no T shots).

But there is a need for a place for a woman to go to seek help for her man when her man is either internet illiterate, too shy or embarrassed, in denial or too depressed to seek out help and join a (this) site. Perhaps if the girls were allowed to hang around long enough to learn something and then lead their man to get involved, it would reduce a lot of suffering, depression, grief with both spouses and even conflict between them. The woman who started this thread was crying out for help. Turning her away without showing her another good path seems cruel and heartless.

I'm sorry you feel that way... I simply do not know of any. Other members have mentioned that they exist but I have not seen them. For some of the men here, they are shy and embarrassed and the only reason they are here is because it is a men only site..

Larry

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I'm sorry you feel that way... I simply do not know of any. Other members have mentioned that they exist but I have not seen them. For some of the men here, they are shy and embarrassed and the only reason they are here is because it is a men only site..
Larry

Sorry I feel what way? Sorry that I feel compassion for the SOs of ED sufferers?

Yes I know some other sites have been mentioned, and I believe I've checked most of them out. I've never seen one worth a crap.

I know the policy and that it won't change. However, my response to your reply on the fragility of some of the men here would have to be: Any man posting on this that doesn't realize anyone can and does, at least to some degree, visit and read the posts on this site, man, woman, hermaphrodite, or whatever, really shouldn't be on the internet to start with. If they don't realize this is an openly read site (with the exception of the one private sub-forum) they aren't safe on the internet and they'll likely get their computer hacked, catch a computer virus or get their info stolen or fall victim to a scam. I have absolutely no doubt many women have visited and read this site, some probably do so with regularity.

I will try and PM the OP before the account is deleted. Maybe I can get her together with my wife by email or something.

[AnotherOldMan]

Yes I know some other sites have been mentioned, and I believe I've checked most of them out. I've never seen one worth a crap.

The ones sited earlier in this thread are penis "enlargement" sites. .

A man should be so lucky to have a partner willing to help them as she seems to be doing. I have read on this site instances of wives/girlfriends disinterest, and even derision/disgust of ED and methods we use to overcome it. I would hope when the opposite arises we would at the very least offer some encouragement.

As for links, if she wants good information she just needs to search this site for previous threads on using VED's. There have been some really informative discussions over the years.

[JimStars]

That's just the way it is .... our treehouse ..

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[Larry10625]

I'm sorry you feel that way... I simply do not know of any. Other members have mentioned that they exist but I have not seen them. For some of the men here, they are shy and embarrassed and the only reason they are here is because it is a men only site..
Larry

Sorry I feel what way? Sorry that I feel compassion for the SOs of ED sufferers?

Yes I know some other sites have been mentioned, and I believe I've checked most of them out. I've never seen one worth a crap.

I know the policy and that it won't change. However, my response to your reply on the fragility of some of the men here would have to be: Any man posting on this that doesn't realize anyone can and does, at least to some degree, visit and read the posts on this site, man, woman, hermaphrodite, or whatever, really shouldn't be on the internet to start with. If they don't realize this is an openly read site (with the exception of the one private sub-forum) they aren't safe on the internet and they'll likely get their computer hacked, catch a computer virus or get their info stolen or fall victim to a scam. I have absolutely no doubt many women have visited and read this site, some probably do so with regularity.

I will try and PM the OP before the account is deleted. Maybe I can get her together with my wife by email or something.

Yeah, mean old Paul and Larry are heartless bastards that are excluding women and not even providing them with alternate sites. OK, you think what you like.

Larry