Congratulations on your success. It should be a bonus for your gf that you've got lasting power.
Consider letting her in on your secret. She should be happy that you've got a good erection and that you're a good lover and know how to use it. Then you won't have to go to extraordinary measures to hide it. If she can't deal with it... then there are other issues.
Young and divorce need help from fellow trimix users
Re: Young and divorce need help from fellow trimix users
nyc_guy7
Your issues are very important and I think you can overcome this with some work.
Put your needs second and you will benefit.
Tell her the problem and invite her to help you solve it.
Many men will even avoid sex rather than talk honestly about their fears with their partner, and this can harm both the sexual health and the emotional health of a relationship.
Eventually this is what worked for us. We learned how to "Edge" each other. Just Google "Edging" and go from there. We took proactive steps and started edging twice a week. We would bath or shower together with warm water and rub each other with soap. Dry off and apply skin care. NOTE: I went and bought a product whose smell I liked rather than use hers.
Then we would play a little and stop on purpose before completion and go on with normal daily life.
Once we were in control of the "sexual incompleteness" we felt better. The next time we got together, we might go a little farther or not........ Eventually the inner sexual feelings build to the point where they HAD to come out and the world is clearer and beautiful again till next time. Then we start all over. Up, down, up........edging or in your case injecting.
I would not be surprised that at some future time the injections may NOT be required as normal sexual function will be restored.
Many of my fellow members will tell you the importance of sharing the truth with the person closest to them and then letting the chips fall where they may.
Feedback is Always Welcome, Jim
Your issues are very important and I think you can overcome this with some work.
Put your needs second and you will benefit.
Tell her the problem and invite her to help you solve it.
Many men will even avoid sex rather than talk honestly about their fears with their partner, and this can harm both the sexual health and the emotional health of a relationship.
Eventually this is what worked for us. We learned how to "Edge" each other. Just Google "Edging" and go from there. We took proactive steps and started edging twice a week. We would bath or shower together with warm water and rub each other with soap. Dry off and apply skin care. NOTE: I went and bought a product whose smell I liked rather than use hers.
Then we would play a little and stop on purpose before completion and go on with normal daily life.
Once we were in control of the "sexual incompleteness" we felt better. The next time we got together, we might go a little farther or not........ Eventually the inner sexual feelings build to the point where they HAD to come out and the world is clearer and beautiful again till next time. Then we start all over. Up, down, up........edging or in your case injecting.
I would not be surprised that at some future time the injections may NOT be required as normal sexual function will be restored.
Many of my fellow members will tell you the importance of sharing the truth with the person closest to them and then letting the chips fall where they may.
Feedback is Always Welcome, Jim
Re: Young and divorce need help from fellow trimix users
buy an auto inject at Ambimedinc called in-jectease. carry it loaded in pocket case, best think I ever did
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Re: Young and divorce need help from fellow trimix users
I am using Lavitra along with my injections. No side effects like I had with other ED drugs. The increased blood flow makes for a harder erection, and it also makes it go down faster. I believe this is due to the increased blood flow washing the Trimix from the penis. Proceed cautiously though we are all different. I use the same amount of Trimix as I did before using the Levitra.
age 68, radical Laparscopic prostatectomy 2007, 500 plus injections, no scarring.
age 68, radical Laparscopic prostatectomy 2007, 500 plus injections, no scarring.
Re: Young and divorce need help from fellow trimix users
Good information for me in this thread
Update from me on finding a new partner.
After a couple of dinners out with a really nice lady, she has now invited me over to her place for dinner and I am guessing it won't just be dinner Now comes the problem of being able to have normal sex....... I have not shared with her anything yet about my ED issues or my RP, although, I did let her know that I was very horny !!!!.
Any suggestions or stories on how to work into this ??? How long will trimix keep out of the refer ?? Do I prefill a syringe and hope to use it in a couple of hours ???
This is not easy, I am really out of my comfort zone...... ugggggggg
Curt
Update from me on finding a new partner.
After a couple of dinners out with a really nice lady, she has now invited me over to her place for dinner and I am guessing it won't just be dinner Now comes the problem of being able to have normal sex....... I have not shared with her anything yet about my ED issues or my RP, although, I did let her know that I was very horny !!!!.
Any suggestions or stories on how to work into this ??? How long will trimix keep out of the refer ?? Do I prefill a syringe and hope to use it in a couple of hours ???
This is not easy, I am really out of my comfort zone...... ugggggggg
Curt
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Re: Young and divorce need help from fellow trimix users
i would wait to have sex at your place. so dont do anything yet Keep it as just dinner. At your place u can excuse yourself and so inject in the bathroom
Re: Young and divorce need help from fellow trimix users
Inviting her over to your place is a great idea--even if ED and Trimix were not in the picture. At the same time, don't miss a chance to get your knob buffed. Earlier in this forum are suggestions on how to transport trimix, keep it cold, etc. Read and learn.
Greg
Baton Rouge
Greg
Baton Rouge
Born 1948, wed 1969. BPH & Type II Diabetes at age 35. TURP-2002; ED even before that--diabetes. Cardiac valve surgery: 2007 & 2019. Poor results with pills. Started trimix injections in Nov, 2010. Great results from the very beginning.
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Re: Young and divorce need help from fellow trimix users
Most women like to go into the bathroom before sex to tiddy up. When she does, do your injection. If she doesnt, excuse yourself and go into bathroom and inject.
Try to do her twice so that she doesnc notice the erection after you ejaculate.. As far as the next morning, back to the bathroom. Use one of those ice pouches to store the syringes in the bathroom.
Remember women love foreplay so take your time. If you give her good sex the first time she will want more and wont care about the injections when you tell her
Try to do her twice so that she doesnc notice the erection after you ejaculate.. As far as the next morning, back to the bathroom. Use one of those ice pouches to store the syringes in the bathroom.
Remember women love foreplay so take your time. If you give her good sex the first time she will want more and wont care about the injections when you tell her
Re: Young and divorce need help from fellow trimix users
I am thinking about joining a "Swingers Club" to get some actual experience with injecting and having sex without putting a real relationship at risk, who knows they might think this is really cool !!!!
Curt
Curt
Re: Young and divorce need help from fellow trimix users
I wonder if this is a new therapy for ED? NOT
Will it reinforce the positives or the negatives. Hummmmm.
Jim
Will it reinforce the positives or the negatives. Hummmmm.
Jim
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