Life Long PE - PLEASE HELP

[softtohard]

This IS a medical issue and it needs a two pronged approach. You need medical intervention to stop your self defeating thought cycle. then, once that downward spiral is under control, move on to therapeutic treatment. Eventually, you wean yourself off the meds
I work with men clinically with PE almost every day. PLEASE be careful with this therapist. What is their general approach? If they mention the squeeze method, run like hell.

Once again, family doctors don't know anything about sexual medicine...and NEITHER DO UROLOGISTS. ED and sexual issues are never part of a urologists training. A uro is a surgeon. Don't go to them for sexual help. You need to find a men's sexual medicine specialist. Where do you live?
Paul

Is it possible to treat PE with Herbal supplements. I read a lot about PE on this site www.herballove.com
What they explain there sounds pretty sound and wise. Any thoughts.
They talk about the parasympathetic and the sympathetic nervous system. And that you can make the parasympathetic
system stronger to make your sympathetic nerves weaker to reduce sensation and anxiety and release of adrenaline.

it sound good in my ears....What do you think?

[Joseph1984]

I have a huge problem with PE and can't last more than a minute, if that. Very depressing and my wife is not happy, but understanding. I hate that she has to be "understanding". Makes me feel worse. I tried SSRIs and hate the way they made me feel, exercises did nothing significant. I heard about Promescent spray and it helped me a lot. It's kinda pricey, but I can go for about five minutes now. That is priceless cause I have more confidence, which I really think is half the battle. I felt bad about going too fast, so that made me go even faster, or not get up at all. Now that I know I can last for a while, I feel better and can relax more. She is much happier now too.

[Anonymous2]

Hi STH Try this its a way for scouting out herbs for PE you just google anything you find, like this, Schizandra for premature ejaculation don't just take things that are put up as help, research each one. your find it will help get the right ones, read 4 or 5 sites if you can. OK

Have a look on http://www.dodsonandross.com left hand side your see erections, ED and lasting longer, her way sounds a real fun way to get help, nice warm room get naked some wine to help you relax and let your wife help you over your problem, but keep doing it don't just try it the once, its called edging.

If you also go to http://www.pegym.com just under the header banner you see premature ejaculation your find how edging is done as its a self help guide to overcoming ED, If you read around the site your find that penis exercises can also help, if you do some jelqing and stretching and it lasts for 45 minutes, well that's 45 minutes your using your penis for, so you can see how this helps you to overcome PE by doing penis exercises. all exercises are done with a semi hard penis, never erect OK

One part of PE is thinking ahead, our minds work ahead of what your doing to what your going to do and that's it away we go, its this part we really need to work on, try thinking of the last football match you was watching, its taking your mind off your penis. OK

NOWHARD

[Anonymous2]

I have a huge problem with PE and can't last more than a minute, if that. Very depressing and my wife is not happy, but understanding. I hate that she has to be "understanding". Makes me feel worse. I tried SSRIs and hate the way they made me feel, exercises did nothing significant. I heard about Promescent spray and it helped me a lot. It's kinda pricey, but I can go for about five minutes now. That is priceless cause I have more confidence, which I really think is half the battle. I felt bad about going too fast, so that made me go even faster, or not get up at all. Now that I know I can last for a while, I feel better and can relax more. She is much happier now too.

Joseph, Have a read through the above post it could help you as well. OK

NOWHARD

[Donnie1954]

Joseph,
In my younger days PE was a devastating problem. Fortunately, my wife loves oral and manual stimulation. I found that frequent masturbation, especially prior to intercourse worked to slow me down.
Donnie

[PellN28]

Hey everyone. My very first time ever being on a site like this and openly discussing my problem with PE. When I first started having sex sense it was new I seemed to last for the first few times and then boom I started lasting a minute or less every time. This has been a huge problem for me sense I was 16 years old. I am now 28 Almost 29. The woman I'm currently with that I intend to marry has never been with a man with this issue. So after 6 months of her being patient and nothing has changed she has given up the idea and the desire to have sex with me. Because she always ends up dissapointed, and I end up feel ashamed and depressed about it. All I want to do is please her and lady lobgwr on bed. Go into it on the right mentality and use a condom to help but still not enough. I got some spray and gel with a band but I fear it's too late for her to want to try again. I want to know what is something I can do that I know will confidently make me feel I have fixed the issue so she can trust me to have sex with me again. Re spark that part of our bond again. Do it right the one time she says ok I'll try and hopefully it will have her coming back for more instead of us fighting or me feeling so low about it after failing. As a man with this problem it doesn't feel good to go that early because if she is not getting off then it doesn't feel as good as it should. I've strained myself so hard that I've gone limp. I hate this, it sucks. Please someone help!

[RichardTheFrog]

Hey everyone. My very first time ever being on a site like this and openly discussing my problem with PE. When I first started having sex sense it was new I seemed to last for the first few times and then boom I started lasting a minute or less every time. This has been a huge problem for me sense I was 16 years old. I am now 28 Almost 29. The woman I'm currently with that I intend to marry has never been with a man with this issue. So after 6 months of her being patient and nothing has changed she has given up the idea and the desire to have sex with me. Because she always ends up dissapointed, and I end up feel ashamed and depressed about it. All I want to do is please her and lady lobgwr on bed. Go into it on the right mentality and use a condom to help but still not enough. I got some spray and gel with a band but I fear it's too late for her to want to try again. I want to know what is something I can do that I know will confidently make me feel I have fixed the issue so she can trust me to have sex with me again. Re spark that part of our bond again. Do it right the one time she says ok I'll try and hopefully it will have her coming back for more instead of us fighting or me feeling so low about it after failing. As a man with this problem it doesn't feel good to go that early because if she is not getting off then it doesn't feel as good as it should. I've strained myself so hard that I've gone limp. I hate this, it sucks. Please someone help!

Stud 100 Desensitizing Spray always worked for me.

You can basically numb your dick.

[PellN28]

Hey everyone. My very first time ever being on a site like this and openly discussing my problem with PE. When I first started having sex sense it was new I seemed to last for the first few times and then boom I started lasting a minute or less every time. This has been a huge problem for me sense I was 16 years old. I am now 28 Almost 29. The woman I'm currently with that I intend to marry has never been with a man with this issue. So after 6 months of her being patient and nothing has changed she has given up the idea and the desire to have sex with me. Because she always ends up dissapointed, and I end up feel ashamed and depressed about it. All I want to do is please her and lady lobgwr on bed. Go into it on the right mentality and use a condom to help but still not enough. I got some spray and gel with a band but I fear it's too late for her to want to try again. I want to know what is something I can do that I know will confidently make me feel I have fixed the issue so she can trust me to have sex with me again. Re spark that part of our bond again. Do it right the one time she says ok I'll try and hopefully it will have her coming back for more instead of us fighting or me feeling so low about it after failing. As a man with this problem it doesn't feel good to go that early because if she is not getting off then it doesn't feel as good as it should. I've strained myself so hard that I've gone limp. I hate this, it sucks. Please someone help!

Stud 100 Desensitizing Spray always worked for me.

You can basically numb your dick.

But how much longer do you last in comparison?

[RichardTheFrog]

Hey everyone. My very first time ever being on a site like this and openly discussing my problem with PE. When I first started having sex sense it was new I seemed to last for the first few times and then boom I started lasting a minute or less every time. This has been a huge problem for me sense I was 16 years old. I am now 28 Almost 29. The woman I'm currently with that I intend to marry has never been with a man with this issue. So after 6 months of her being patient and nothing has changed she has given up the idea and the desire to have sex with me. Because she always ends up dissapointed, and I end up feel ashamed and depressed about it. All I want to do is please her and lady lobgwr on bed. Go into it on the right mentality and use a condom to help but still not enough. I got some spray and gel with a band but I fear it's too late for her to want to try again. I want to know what is something I can do that I know will confidently make me feel I have fixed the issue so she can trust me to have sex with me again. Re spark that part of our bond again. Do it right the one time she says ok I'll try and hopefully it will have her coming back for more instead of us fighting or me feeling so low about it after failing. As a man with this problem it doesn't feel good to go that early because if she is not getting off then it doesn't feel as good as it should. I've strained myself so hard that I've gone limp. I hate this, it sucks. Please someone help!

Stud 100 Desensitizing Spray always worked for me.

You can basically numb your dick.

But how much longer do you last in comparison?

Why don't you just try it out?

[olzi54]

I've been suffering from PE all my life, I'm 62 now. Finally I talked about it to my urologist. He gave me two prescriptions, one is for Priligy and the other one is Tramadol. Priligy is a medication to PE, but Tramadol is a pain killer, but it REALLY helps with my PE.